What do you do when you can't hear the whistle in Gamblers?
Mary-Elizabeth Simpson's parents were not aware that she had a hearing problem until she was about three years old. She never learned to use sign language and was mainstreamed all her life. She learned to take the ups and downs of being a deaf child in a hearing world. The road was fraught with anger, isolation, and wanting to be independent. Everyone's love in the family was no match for the love that her dogs gave to her.
My grandmother was the saving grace to all my needs and my parents tried in every way to make life easier for me. Once their suspicions were confirmed about my hearing, they sent me to a local hospital where I took speech therapy and learned to lip read. There I strengthened my pronunciation of words. I went on to college where I studied sociology.
After I graduated, I was determined to change my lifestyle and become something. But what? I couldn't hear. Employers didn't want a deaf person on their payroll - and if they had me, I was in the lowest paid position. My biggest challenge, however, was overcoming my shyness. All my life I was over-protected. I spent my time with adults but didn't have friends my age. Why? Because I couldn't hear on the phone to chat, couldn't hear in the dark, and many didn't want to include me for fear that I wouldn't have any fun or understand conversations in large groups.
changed my life
We took obedience classes at Portchester Obedience Training Club and started earning titles in obedience. A year later, I become their instructor once a week. I was thrilled to. Then a few years later, I started Joyful Canine Training which caters in helping people train their dogs on a private basis.
I started agility at Portchester OTC and then at Contact Agility Club. I was hooked! Tasha and I became inseparable. We would go to AKC and USDAA trials and would have fabulous runs only to be NQ'd because she would knock only one bar down. This became my ultimate challenge. I was determined to overcome it so I sought help from many people but especially from Elisha Calhoun. She suggested getting her thinner, doing cavalettis, running up hills and doing series of jumps of varying heights in sequences. We did all that and, lo and behold, she got her NA title!!
Gamblers is my goal
I will soon be doing that and hope to succeed in that area. My goal is to go to the Grand Prix Finals. It probably will take a year or two, but after all I've had to overcome all these years to get to where I am today, I'm sure I can wait until the time comes when I will be able to compete in the finals!
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About the author...
She now has two dogs in training, an Aussie Wessel (Montrose Special Edition) and another PWC, Hannah Banana (Windcrest Zip'n' Rave Review, NA, NAJ, CGC) which I hope to title further than my first one.
Mary-Elizabeth can be contacted at Joyful Canine Training/Windcrest Acres on email@example.com
I am registered disabled as I have lost about 40% of my hearing in both ears. I wear two hearing aids but still manage - just- to teach full time in a primary school. Because I can hold an intelligent conversation on a one to one basis using all my concentration, people tend not to treat me any differently to other handlers. In fact, I have had more people making a joke out of my deafness in Agility situations than any where else.
Thank goodness we don’t have many tables in Midis, I have to rely on lip-reading for the count.
I never hear what a judge says to me on a course as they are out of range of my hearing aids. I usually rely on other people in the line explaining to me. (Like -You are E’d because you left your bum bag on!)
This is something that everyone needs to understand. Glasses correct eye sight. Hearing aids do not correct hearing defect. All a hearing aid does is to amplify all sound (including barking dogs) within a radius of about four feet. Outside that range they are completely useless.
What show organisers can do to help us would probably also help hearing handlers.
I find shows very stressful because of my disability, although I love to compete and Kiri and I are having some success at the moment. I am always on tenterhooks in case I miss walking the courses - which I often do.
I’m thinking of wearing a badge at the next show ‘Deaf Handler - Please let me know if you hear a Midi course being walked.'
The other deaf handler I know is profoundly deaf, which means she hears very little indeed. She brings her mum to shows to act as her ears. A simple solution if you have a relative around.
One last plea –
DON’T reply, 'Pardon!'
This is not funny, and we’ve all lip-read it dozens of times before! (08/10/01)
From Charlotte Graves, Corgi
Some observations from Terry
Blonder Golson, another handler with severe hear loss...
I'm careful at the start to let the gate steward know I won't be able to hear them call my name. I make sure that I know what the whistle sounds like (once there was a plastic child's whistle, total disaster -- no one could hear it).
I do get nervous during Gamblers that I won't be able to hear the whistle signaling when to start the gamble, though that has only happened once. Also, I wish that trials would have whistles that sound different for each ring, as I can't always hear what direction a sound is coming from.
I always ask the judge where they will be standing while doing the table count. I also ask them to show me how they count so that I can tell whether they'll have to talk louder, or whether I can read their body language. I prefer not to have them count louder as that tends to slow them down, and I have a history of missing Q's by 1 second.
During the judge's briefing, I come across as quite rude and squeeze my way past people, so I can stand next to the judge and hear. Of course, I miss all of what comes over the loudspeakers. But, I am a member of an agility club, so I sit with people who help me out.
I do have an extra level of anxiety as a competitor as I'm afraid I won't hear the stray comment, am concerned I'll miss the announcement about a class starting or worried about the table count, etc. As time goes on, I am less anxious as I know much more as to what to expect. Also, in New England I recognize many of the competitors, and since it is a small, helpful community, I can ask for assistance when needed.
From Megan McDowell...
We are in California and have had a terrible luck finding a trainer who can deal with the hearing impaired. What has worked the best is providing the instructor with the book Sign for Me from Dawn Sign Press. This is VERY basic book, but the signs are clear and concise.
Out of necessityI am becoming quite the agility instructor out of necessity. We have a full set of home made equipment now, and I take lessons so I can explain techniques to her. I recently purchased a set of vibrating beepers to help get my niece's attention when she is out if my line of sight, and spotters are allowed ringside. She also shows horses and has no problem making her desires known.
Brinna has competed in two trials this season earning a Novice Gambler leg and a JH Standard leg. I bought vibrating beepers to help her in the Gambler class. The competitors here look on her as a bit of a novelty but for the most part have been nice enough.
She speaks Signed English rather than ASL. The dog was not taught sign; Brinna was taught DOG. If you really pay attention to what your BODY does when you are teaching the signals are very clear and deaf people are tuned in to body language as well as facial expression.
She is also having great success in the herding ring. mostly due to the fact that she can hear a dog whistle but not the spoken word. The family has been showing horses and dogs for many years and she has an AMAZING rapport with the animals, almost like telepathy.
In fact, Brinna probably gets along better with the animals than with people! We are considering a permanent move to Great Britain, so the interest in deaf handling over there is a great relief. I will be happy to answer any questions you may have or write something about our experiences if you wish.
for asking about hearing impaired handlers in agility... from Debbie Gifford
I started agility about three years ago with my Border Collie Ramsey who is now 4 1/2 years old. We compete in NADAC (North American Dog Agility Council) and AAC (Agility Association of Canada). At first, my biggest worry was whether or not I would be able to hear the ring steward and starter when they called my name, or told me it was time to start my run.
Learning to cope
These factors allow me to concentrate more on Ramsey before I enter the ring and at the start line. I think many competitors will tell you that besides being 'in synch' on the course, it is also vital to make a 'connection' with your canine partner before you start your run as well.
Basically there are two small boxes. One is called the receiver which I strap to my waist via an elasticized belt and the other is called the transmitter which is placed near the sound (i.e. speaker's voice at work, or the whistle in Gamblers competition). The receiver has a wire that connects up to both my hearing aids. My husband holds the transmitter and it's associated microphone near the whistle. When the whistle blows signifying the start of the gamble, the sound travels to my hearing aids via FM radio waves. There have been a few situations where due to lots of wind or rain the FM signal has been weak or non-existent, so as a backup when the first whistle blows, my husband speaks loudly into the transmitter microphone the word 'Now! 'I can only remember one time out of 30 that this system hasn't worked. I also remember one other time where a judge wasn't going to allow the FM system to be used because he felt that this practice gave me an unfair advantage over my fellow competitors. After awhile he gave in, but did not allow my husband to be part of the notifying process.
Thank you Anette
Photo of Debbie Gifford: Kevin Potvin